I am looking for a SWM who looks and acts younger than he is....easy going and easy on the eyes....children are okay but since my children are grown with their own, I find it necessary to look for a man who is NOT tied down with children at home(sorry my preferences) I have been married but also have been on my own for awhile,so quite used to being by myself,doing things by myself...I sort of feel like an introvert I am looking for that last L.T.R, I am tired of meeting losers....I don't have high standards but I don't like liars,cheaters or abusers (physical or verbal) so if I sound like I am a man basher ....well do YA blame me? I am looking for a man who is NOT into PORNO.....Yes I am grown but this is what I am looking for.....I think once the physical is established , needs should be satisfied in that department fully ....as two people connect all becomes one ...(but thats for later in the relationship anyway) I am tired of being abused ...beaten...or ignored....